We’ve discussed benching. We’ve discussed zombieing. We’ve come up with so many names for people who can’t commit to a Saturday night plan; I’m surprised there isn’t an awards ceremony for it. But the latest dating reports have me asking a different question: What if the most interesting trend in dating is that people are finally getting clear about what they truly want? Match’s September 2026 Singles in America study, conducted with researchers from the Kinsey Institute, sur