There’s something about summer that makes us all a little more open—about life, love, and what’s possible. It’s the season of sunset dates, weekend getaways, drinks on patios, concerts under the stars, and that person you meet on vacation who suddenly seems much more interesting because you’re tan, relaxed, and a world away from your normal routine. But what happens when you’re divorced and dating? Welcome to the Summer of Divorcees. So, how’s it really going for you? Maybe y

Divorce isn't just the end of a relationship—it's the unraveling of routines, expectations, and sometimes even your identity. For months or years, you've been carrying stress, disappointment, and uncertainty. One day you wake up and realize you're still holding onto it. Healing doesn't happen overnight. It unfolds through small, intentional choices, day by day. The following steps are not just a checklist, but an invitation to move gently through your healing. Each step is a

When you’re married, life can move at a relentless pace. You blink, and suddenly the days are filled with shared routines, whispered jokes over dinner, and the comforting chaos of everyday life. It’s tempting to believe there will always be another vacation, holiday, or quiet evening together. If your marriage is healthy, take a moment—just a moment—to really see each other. Celebrate the ordinary: the way your partner laughs at your worst joke, or the quiet way they reach fo

After divorce, there comes a point when the noise finally settles. The paperwork is signed. The boxes are unpacked. Friends stop checking in every week. Life slowly begins to look… normal. Looking forward And then, quietly, reflection shows up—not the kind that lives in old photographs or on anniversary dates, but the kind that quietly asks difficult questions. Who was I before all of this? When did I stop recognizing myself? Why did I ignore the things I knew deep down? Refl

Let’s stop pretending divorce is a beautifully packaged journey of self-discovery. Sometimes divorce is ugly. Sometimes it’s crying in a parking lot because your favorite coffee creamer reminds you of Saturday mornings that don’t exist anymore. Other times, it’s cleaning your house at midnight just to avoid thinking. Or it’s staring at the ceiling at 2:37 a.m., wondering how someone who once promised you forever now acts like a complete stranger. No one talks about that part.

Divorce in 2026 feels different than it did even a decade ago. While fewer couples overall are choosing to part ways, the reasons behind those decisions—and the ways people move forward—are evolving in deeply personal ways. Gray Divorce Continues to Reshape Families One of the most striking shifts is the rise of "gray divorce"—when couples choose to separate after age 50, often after decades together. Key findings: Nearly 40% of divorcing adults are now age 50 or older. Divor

There are plenty of articles about what women should expect during menopause, but very few conversations focus on what men should understand—especially when it comes to dating or loving a divorced woman who is navigating this stage of life. The truth is, menopause and divorce can feel like a perfect storm. One is the end of a major chapter, often marked by grief, uncertainty, financial stress, and the challenge of rebuilding an entirely new life. The other is a biological tra

For much of our lives, we’re told there’s just one true love waiting for us somewhere out in the world. One soulmate. One perfect match. One person who makes us feel whole. But what happens when that love ends? What do you do when a marriage ends in divorce, a partner passes away, or a relationship that once felt like forever becomes a memory from your past? What do you do when a marriage ends in divorce, a partner passes away, or a relationship that once felt like forever be

It’s tough to watch your child struggle with two homes. You’re doing your best to help them feel safe, and there are ways to make transitions easier and help them feel secure — wherever they are. Keep Adult Conflict Away From the Kids No child should feel caught in the middle. Your love matters most. Avoid: Arguing during exchanges Asking children to relay messages Speaking negatively about the other parent Making kids feel guilty for enjoying time elsewhere Show your kids it

We’ve all heard it before. “Love is blind.” People say it with a dreamy smile — as if not seeing someone clearly is romantic, or overlooking flaws is a badge of honor. Ignoring red flags? That’s proof of loyalty, they say. But here’s the question I keep coming back to lately: Should we always look the other way in love? Or is that how we lose ourselves along the way? When Love Feels Like Magic At first, love really does blur the edges. Chemistry hits. The laughter comes easi

Divorce already rearranges the furniture of family life. Roles shift. Schedules change. Traditions get rewritten. And most families accept that—because they have to. But there’s a difference between adjusting and disconnecting. One of the hardest post-divorce realities to navigate is when priorities shift for only one parent, and suddenly the balance that held the family together starts to tilt. What was once shared responsibility becomes uneven. What was once consistent beco

At some point, many of us realize we don’t just struggle to trust romantic partners anymore we struggle to trust people, period. Friends. Coworkers. Family. Strangers. Even the versions of people we thought we knew. And it’s not because we suddenly became bitter or closed off. It’s because life—divorce included—has shown us that people are complicated, inconsistent, and sometimes deeply disappointing. When Trust Breaks, It Doesn’t Stay in One Lane Here’s the thing no one rea

If 2025 were a person, it would be that friend who says, “Trust me, this will be good for you,” and then immediately hands you emotional whiplash, a plot twist, and a bill you weren’t expecting. This year had a lot of audacity . It tested patience.It tested boundaries. It tested how many times one person can say, “Wow, that wasn’t on my bingo card.” So before we close the book on 2025, let’s pause and ask the fundamental question: How are you feeling about this year—honestly

Age-gap dating has been around forever, but let’s be honest: we’re finally in a moment where confident, successful women are done apologizing for liking what (and who) they like. And younger men? They’re thriving with partners who know who they are, what they want, and how to communicate like adults. Welcome to Cougar & Mantor Dating Rules ; because if you’re going to break the traditional script, you might as well do it with style, boundaries, and zero embarrassment. Whether

The holidays have a way of shining a spotlight on everything—our joy, our stress, our families, our loneliness, our magic, our mess. And for divorcees, the season can feel a little different than it used to. Not worse. Not better. Just… different. The truth is, once you’ve walked through a significant transition like divorce, your holiday wish list changes, too. You stop wanting the stuff that looks good on paper and start craving the things that feel good in real life. S

The holidays have a way of bringing out all the emotions—nostalgia, excitement, stress, and yes… the occasional why-is-this-so-hard moment. When you’re divorced and co-parenting, the season can feel even more layered. Between juggling schedules, managing expectations, and trying to make the holidays memorable for your kids, it’s easy to feel pulled in a million directions. But here’s the truth: you can create a joyful, meaningful holiday season—one that honors your children

Let’s take a moment to reflect on the journey to emotional disconnection isn’t an abrupt event; it unfolds gradually. It may begin with a missed conversation, an unvoiced apology, or a “I’m fine” that doesn’t ring true. Before long, the person who once shared laughter, dreams, and deep emotions with you becomes quiet. They remain physically present, but you can sense the distance. When someone shuts down emotionally in a marriage, the warmth begins to fade. Hugs become brief,

Some of us are there, some of us have been there, and I have seen this situation waaaay too many times. It’s hard enough watching your ex move on. But when they start dating a control freak? Oh, honey, that’s a whole new level of entertainment and concern. Because while you’re over here breathing free air, healing, and rediscovering your peace, they’re diving headfirst into a relationship that feels more like a dictatorship. All the signs are there; You know the type. The one

No one tells you that you can still love someone and know it’s time to walk away. Divorce isn’t always born out of hatred or betrayal. Sometimes, it’s born of courage —the courage to admit that love alone isn’t enough to make a marriage work. You can love someone deeply and still recognize that your values, needs, or paths no longer align. You can care for them and still crave something more — peace, growth, freedom, or a sense of self that got lost along the way. That realiz

Let’s be honest, sometimes you want to go the F off. Like, full-on unleash every thought, every insult, every truth bomb you’ve been holding in for way too long. Maybe it’s your ex pushing your buttons (again). Maybe it’s their new partner trying too hard. Maybe it’s just the universe testing your patience one text at a time. Whatever the trigger, you feel that familiar burn, the urge to fire back, to let them have it. No matter what triggers it, that familiar burning sensat