There’s something about your child quietly asking, “Are you okay?” that can turn those tears you were holding back into tears you can’t hide anymore. Maybe they catch you crying in the kitchen. Maybe they hear the exhaustion in your voice. Maybe they sit beside you and put an arm around your shoulders without saying a word. Your first instinct might be to straighten up. “I’m fine.” “Don’t worry about me.” “I’m just tired.” As parents, we’re used to being the comforters—the on