I know we live in an age of social media and whatnot, and the world is wild; everyone is busy and feels like they are moving in one million directions. People often do not slow down enough to practice common courtesies, especially regarding communication. Talking on your phone when someone else is trying to converse with you. Not saying thank you when someone does something nice for you (like holding the door open). Not looking people in the eyes because your head is down on your phone. Multitasking/distractions during a meeting or date. Texting has obliterated the art of conversation. Text messages have replaced phone calls, in-person meetings, and dating. Now you can send a text message to your crush as quickly as you'd order takeout food through an app on your smartphone or tablet. While this is convenient for many people, it also comes with consequences: texting lacks etiquette or respect for others' time and feelings--and it's easy to forget that there are real people on the other side of those screens! Ironically, phone calls are considered more personal than text messaging, but they are not. Texting is a tool for communication, not a replacement for human interaction. Phone calls can be made or received at any time of day without much effort on your part (and most phones have a built-in answering machine). Texts arrive only when you want them to--you don't have to worry about waking up someone who needs rest because they're sick or tired from work. Phone calls also allow us to connect in ways we wouldn't otherwise be able to through written words alone: inflections in our voices convey emotion; facial expressions can say more than any sentence ever could; body language helps communicate meaning without having to say anything at all! Texting is impersonal and requires no effort from the sender to express their feelings or attention to detail. It is easy for someone to text you without thinking about what they say or how it will make you feel. Texting requires no thoughtfulness or consideration because it's all done via text message, which removes all human interaction from the equation. You know, the person who texts you instead of calling you. The one who wants to avoid meeting in person would rather text than meet face-to-face. They're probably not even dating anyone right now--and if they do, it's only because their partner can't stand them either. It's a shame that so many people have come to rely on texting as their primary means of communication with others; it's like they don't want anything beyond words on a screen--no voice inflection or facial expression, or body language! It makes sense, though: If someone's never heard your voice before (or seen your face), they won't realize how annoying it is when you talk too fast or breathe loudly through your nose while chewing food loudly... Texting is impersonal. You can't see the person you're texting with, so it's impossible to know their mood or tone when they reply. When we talk face-to-face with someone, we can tell if they are happy or sad based on their facial expressions and body language; but when you're texting someone you don't know well enough to read those signals yet (or at all), it's hard not to feel like all your messages are being read by robots! Texting also lacks depth: there's no way for two people who don't know each other very well yet--and especially if those two people aren't talking face-to-face--to get into anything meaningful over text message because there's no way for either party involved in this "conversation" (if one could even call it that). Texting is NOT a substitute for talking with people face-to-face. If something essential needs saying, pick up the phone and call them instead of sending them an impersonal text message (or email). You'll avoid misunderstanding and miscommunication altogether. Texting is an excellent tool for communication, but there are others. If you use your phone as an excuse not to talk face-to-face with people, you're missing out on all kinds of opportunities for human connection. Texting also lacks civility, etiquette, and manners, meaning it's time for us all to take a step back from our phones to reconnect in person! Let's start a movement - call a friend or loved one today or someone you have been texting about a date! Your voice is your art of communication. xoxo Erin

Managing work and kids after a divorce can be one of the most challenging aspects of your post-split life. You've left a relationship but aren't always sure how to handle being alone. And now you must deal with the fact that your kids are sad about their parent's separation—and may even be acting out because of it! Here are some tips for making things easier for both you and your children during this challenging time: Create a schedule that works for everyone: Once your schedule is in place, it's essential to stick with it. Your children will benefit from having a daily routine and knowing what to expect. But if something happens or one child needs more attention than usual, don't be afraid to change things around. Certain days work better for everyone than others--say there are extracurricular activities on Fridays and Saturdays that take up most of your time (and maybe even into the evenings). Or Saturdays are better because they offer more opportunities for playdates or other social activities than other weekdays. That's okay! It's all about finding what works best for everyone involved and ensuring everyone has enough time together without feeling overwhelmed by their responsibilities at home and outside of school/work/etcetera. Don't be afraid to ask for help: Feel free to ask for help. You may feel like you need to do everything independently, but that's only sometimes realistic. If you have friends or family willing and able to help with babysitting, household chores, and other tasks, take them up on their offers. Your kids will benefit from having extra attention from other adults in their lives. You can also ask your ex-spouse if they would be willing to watch the kids occasionally so that you can go out with friends or get some much-needed adult time on your own-- make sure it's something both parents agree upon first! Be flexible. Flexibility is critical when it comes to managing work and kids after divorce. Feel free to change the schedule, ask for help, and call in sick when needed. Being flexible will make your life easier in the long run and help keep things running smoothly at home with your kids. Introduce your kids to their new routines. Introduce your kids to their new routines. Explain to them that you are doing your best and ask for their help. Be patient and calm; this can be challenging for everyone involved. You can do this. You are a great parent with the strength to endure this time. You can be the best parent for your kids, even if they aren't living with you full-time. There are many ways to balance work and kids after divorce. The most important thing is to remember that you can do it! Remember to create a schedule that works for everyone, and don't be afraid to ask for help when needed. It's also important to keep things flexible so everyone feels comfortable in their new routine. Introducing your kids to new ways can be challenging but will pay off in the long run as they adjust more easily over time. Please Remember to take care of yourself! xoxo Erin

Dating apps have taken over the dating landscape in a big way. They offer convenience and ease and are a great way to meet new people. If you've never used dating applications before, it can be hard to know what to do or how to start. That's why we've put together this handy guide for those of you who are just getting started with dating apps! How to Navigate: You can swipe right on someone if you like them or swipe left if you don't. If they do the same, it's a match, and you can start chatting! If someone doesn't want to match with you, don't take it personally; they just may not be interested in dating at this time or place. Try again another time when/where it works better for both parties involved. What to do if someone doesn't want to match with me? Don't worry about it--they might not be into who YOU are yet! Give yourself some time and try again later when/where things might go better than before (and vice versa). That said: if someone continues rejecting multiple attempts at making contact over several days' worth of interactions, then perhaps this isn't going anywhere. What dating application do you choose? Are you looking for someone who is in your age range? Are you looking for someone with similar interests and hobbies? Do you want to be able to meet people who live near you, or would you instead meet someone from across the country or the world? These are all important questions when considering what dating application suits you. How many dating applications are out there? There are a lot of dating apps out there. Some are free, and some are paid, but they all have one thing in common: they're meant to help you find your soulmate. The best part? There's something for everyone! If you're looking for a serious relationship and have your eye on another person with the same goal, check out Match or eHarmony. If casual hookups are more your speed, Grindr might be right up your alley (or down your pants). And if neither of these options sounds like what you're looking for--maybe because you have yet to learn yourself or someone else told them what kind of partner would suit them--then OkCupid is probably where it's at! The first thing you will want to do is think about why you are using a dating app. Are you looking for love? Or just some sex? Maybe both! If you want to find someone who shares your interests and values, then an app like Tinder may be better for you than one like OKCupid or Match.com. If the latter is more your speed, then there are still ways for those who have no interest in meeting their soulmate through technology: many bars now have Tinder nights where singles can go out together and swipe right (or left) on each other over drinks instead of just staring at their phones all night long until they get tired enough that they go home alone--and then cry themselves to sleep over it because no one ever wants them anyway because everyone else has moved on from being single too so why won't anyone ever love me again?! Tips for the best chances of matching: Choose a dating app that is right for you. Make sure the app is free and easy to use. Make sure the app is secure, primarily if you use it to meet strangers or plan your first date. Choose an app with a large user base so that plenty of people might be interested in meeting someone like you! You need to make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you. The first thing you need to do is make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you. Don't just use one; try a few. You can use more than one at once, but make sure they're all geared toward what you're looking for in terms of location and age range. If your goal is finding someone in your area or nearby cities, go with something like Tinder or Bumble (better if you want women). If your dream date is someone who lives across the country and has no interest in traveling there anytime soon, consider using Grindr or Scruff (the former being better if it's men). We hope this article has helped you to make an informed decision about which dating app is best for you. There are so many options out there, but with some careful thought and research, we're sure you'll find one that works well for your needs. Here is a complete list from Tom's Guide. Dating is not simple these days at any age, especially with technology; however, you can also use dating apps for pure entertainment :) Remember, you can have our new Audiobook for FREE. just email us at divorceedish@gmail.com xoxo Erin

I'm sure you've been there: You text someone, and they don't respond. Then, you wait and decide it's time to give up. But then you wonder...why did they ignore me? Were they just busy? Was there another reason why they didn't respond? Well, I'm here to tell you why! When someone doesn't respond to your text, they are ignoring you. It's rude and disrespectful, and they don't care much about you. And you deserve a heckuva lot better than that! Theory: People will think they are more important than you, but need more time to respond. Have you ever been on a date, and then the person you've been with doesn’t text you back? It's a horrible feeling. You may think they are somehow more important than you & need more time to respond...but I've learned not to buy that one. Honestly, it makes them look like an idiot because they are sooooo busy that they cannot even take the time to respond. Puh-leeze. You may also feel that this person does not care about what is going on in your life. Perhaps something terrible has happened to you, e.g. your car broke down or got hit by another vehicle while parked on the street. You feel like crap but they aren't really that interested if they've gone silent. It can feel like a sick game. It boils down to this: If you're wondering why someone doesn't answer your texts, most likely that they don't want to talk to you. They may be testing the waters to see if they can get away with not answering and then maybe give it another shot later down the road. You know what? That's fine. But if this person isn't willing or able at this point (or ever), please move on! They want to spend their time responding only if theyre interested in you. It's all about them. If they do respond, and it's a short and straightforward response (like "I like your profile"), then maybe you have a shot at getting them out on a date. But if they don't even bother answering your message, it's best to avoid sending any more messages or trying again later. However, if it seems like they might be interested in dating you but don't text back right away, wait it out! They'll get back to you eventually if they want to date someone as awesome as you. But when it comes to texting, or not, keep these points in mind, they can be mind-blowing: People are less critical than you You are the only one who can make your life better or worse, so it's up to you to take care of yourself first and foremost. Always look out for number one So, if you've ever wondered why someone won't text back, now you know. Likely, they don't want to talk to you or are too busy. But don't worry; plenty of other people out there will respond when they receive your message because they are actual adults who know how to communicate. Be true to yourself, Erin Time to Dish: Have you ever not texted someone back? How do you feel when you text, and someone does not text you back? How did you handle that situation? Can you honestly believe that grown adults - get stuck on stupid? Get your FREE Divorcee Dish ebook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9SFP48W

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I know it's not easy to change your attitude about divorce when you're in the middle of one. Divorce is stressful for everyone involved: You, your soon-to-be-ex spouse, and especially your kids. However, if you can find a way to accept that things are indeed changing – and, surprise, maybe even embrace them – I promise it'll make things easier for everyone involved. It might even help with that whole happiness thing we all want so much! Here are some tips: It would be best if you considered talking to a professional. If you're having trouble coping with divorce, seeking help is crucial. And you don't have to do it alone, nor should you feel alone. So many resources available in person and online, including counselors and support groups, can help you through this challenging time in your life. You might not have a choice about the divorce. If you're in an irreconcilable situation and a divorce is inevitable, you must consider improving your life afterward. Focus on the positive aspects of being single again and what it will mean for your future happiness. Sure, you’ll think about what you'll miss from the marriage but focus on what you'll gain from being single again. Instead of focusing on the negative, think about what you can do to improve your life. Banish thinking about what you don't want, like being single again or having to pay alimony; think about what is good for you and how it will affect your life moving forward. Think about how good it feels when someone tells us we look nice today or brings us flowers just because they think of us. Think about all those little things that make up our day-to-day lives and how much better those moments are than any big ones could ever be! Paying attention to yourself and your feelings is essential when going through a divorce. Be honest about what went wrong in your marriage and what role you played in its demise. Learn from your mistakes by thinking carefully about how they might have been avoided or minimized if you'd done things differently. Remember that you are not alone; many people have dealt with divorce before, and many will again in their future relationships. Please seek out these friends who have been through similar experiences so that they can help guide you through this challenging time. Finally, take some time now while things are still fresh on your mind. Consider what changes need to be made so that things go better for everyone involved (including yourself) next time. Think about what parts of the relationship were good--and which weren't so great after all... Think about what you'll miss from the marriage and what you'll gain from being single again. You will miss the good times you had with your spouse. You may have been married for a long time, and there were some excellent moments then. But with divorce, you'll also gain freedom, independence, and a chance to be yourself again. You might have been living someone else's idea of what life should be like if you were married or in a long-term relationship before getting divorced. Now you can try new things and live a different life than what was expected of you by others' standards (or even your own). Also, this is a big one: You cannot control your kids' feelings about the divorce, but you can be a good role model. Children learn from their parents, and it's essential that you are happy and healthy for yourself. Remember that it's better for your kids if you're happy and healthy once they're grown up and out of the house. Being sad, angry, and scared is OK - those are all normal emotions. But don't let those feelings take over your life or get in the way of your kids' lives too much. They need to have both parents involved in their lives after the divorce as much as possible (and this doesn't mean every day). The Wrap-Up. If you find that one or more of these feelings are overwhelming you or making things worse than they need to be, it may help if you find someone who knows how hard this time can be on people like family members/friends who have been through similar situations themselves before so they might understand what we're going through better than others do too. It's never easy to go through a divorce, but it can be much more complicated if you're not in a good place mentally. If you find yourself struggling with your attitude about divorce and other life changes, don't hesitate to seek help from someone who can guide you through the healing process so that one day soon (hopefully), all will be well again. It takes time and work; however, we believe in you and are here for you anytime at https://www.divorceedish.com/contact-us. You got this! Erin Listen to DIVORCEE DISH TWO for FREE - message us!

Being a single parent is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. You must be both a mother and a father, which takes strength, patience, and love. However, some tips can make your life easier as a single parent: 1) Be honest with your feelings: As a single parent, you must be honest with your feelings. You may cry more than usual, and it's okay if you do! It's also okay if you don't feel like crying- you can feel however you want. It's essential for children when their parents show emotions openly and honestly because it teaches them that it's okay for them too. Children who grow up seeing their parents being open about their feelings grow up knowing how powerful those same emotions can be when appropriately expressed; they learn how important it is for people to say themselves honestly even when things get difficult or scary; they see from early on how much strength comes from having someone else by your side during tough times...and so much more! 2) Set boundaries for yourself: As a single parent, setting boundaries for yourself and your children is essential. This means that you need to take care of your own needs first so that you don't overcompensate for the absence of their other parent by taking on too much responsibility or being too involved in their lives. You can set boundaries by: Setting clear time limits on when and where your child will be allowed access to electronic devices (phones/tablets) so they have time away from screens; Making sure they know they can come to talk if they're feeling overwhelmed or confused about something without being judged. We are teaching them how to handle money responsibly so they understand what it takes financially and emotionally when making decisions like buying things online through a debit card versus cash. We are setting aside some "me" time every week where no one else is allowed at home except me! 3) Do not overcompensate: Do not overcompensate. Don't compare your child to other people's children or others' experiences. Be kind and gentle with yourself as a parent, but also know when you need help from others--and don't be afraid to ask for it! Be kind and gentle with your child but expect them to make mistakes. It's part of growing up! 4) Take care of yourself so you can better take care of your kids: No question that being a single parent is tough. You're responsible for everything and have no one to turn to when things get tough. But it would be best if you took care of yourself to take care of your kids better. Take care of yourself physically by getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly--even if it's just walking around the block every afternoon after work or going on weekend hikes with your children. It will help keep both their minds and bodies healthy! And remember to take time for yourself away from all those responsibilities as well! Whether taking an hour out of each day to relax with a cupcake (or two), watching movies in bed while eating popcorn, or reading books at night instead of checking emails...whatever makes YOU happy will help make life easier for everyone involved! 5) Tell the truth to your child. Children are very perceptive and will know if you're lying to them or trying to protect them from the truth. Kids should hear it from you than someone else, like another kid at school who may not have all the facts straight (or might even be spreading rumors). Don't sugarcoat things for your kids. Please don't lie about what happened or makeup stories about why things are happening in your life now; tell it like it is! It's okay if some parts are sad or scary; explain as best as possible so they understand what's going on around them, but don't leave out anything essential either--you don't want any surprises later down the road when they find out something else happened during this period that wasn't mentioned earlier on either side of things." 6) Do not compare your child to other people's children or others' experiences. One of the most important things you can do is stop comparing your child to others. This is especially true if you compare their behavior or personality with another person's child. It can be easy for us as parents to look at other people's children and think they are better behaved, well-adjusted, and overall better off than our kids, but this isn't always the case. Each family has their own unique set of circumstances that shape them into who they are today.Additionally, please don't compare your experience as a single parent with someone else's experiences either--it will only make things more stressful! 7) Single parenting is hard, but it is worth it. Being a single parent is hard, but it's worth it. You will learn to be more self-sufficient and independent. You'll have to learn to do things you never thought possible, like ensuring your kid has clean clothes and food in their belly. But these skills will help you become a better parent for your child because they teach patience, resilience, and independence--all essential qualities for being a good parent at any age! The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone. Millions of single parents are going through the same thing you are, and they can be your support system when things get tough. You will make mistakes along the way but also learn from them so that things will improve for you and your children next time! xoxo Erin Time to Dish: How is single parenting going for you? What is the best thing about being a single parent? What is the worst thing about being a single parent? How do you feel about the experience so far? Listen to DIVORCEE DISH TWO

You know the feeling: you see someone, and your mind starts spinning. Maybe they're hot, or funny, or smart, there’s just something about them him or her that makes you think twice. BUT…you can't quite put your finger on it. There’s something off about them in a way that's hard to describe. Then boom, they go out of their way to be nice to you, and suddenly everything seems perfect…until they do something totally un-perfect again. However, don't worry if this sounds familiar. It happens to everyone at one point or another once you dive into the dating pool. Here are some common reasons why people might mess with your head (and how to deal). · They are into you. The worst part about this is that it's all in your head. Yes! The other person isn't trying to be mean or hurtful; they're just being themselves and doing what comes naturally to them. They don't know how you feel about them, so they're trying to figure out if there's any potential for a romantic relationship between the two of you. And if this person does like you, then he/she might think it would be better if he/she made the first move instead of waiting for something from you first, e.g., a kiss or some form of physical contact (holding hands). When someone likes another person who doesn't return those feelings back yet, they may try harder until they succeed at getting closer physically by initiating more intimate interactions like kissing on the lips with tongue involved! Whoa, jackpot! · They are scared. They are afraid of getting hurt, they are afraid of rejection, and they are afraid of being vulnerable. They often don't want to show their true selves because they think that you will reject them if you know who they really are. It's easier for them to lie (ugh) than tell the truth because then there is less chance of getting hurt or rejected by someone else. The truth hurts but so does lying! Lying makes your heart heavy inside while telling the truth sets your mind free from burdens and guilt feelings that come with deceiving others around us in our daily lives. As human beings co-existing on planet earth together peacefully side by side as one big family…it’s called "humanity" and it freaks a lot of people out, hence the lies. · They are confused. They don't know how they feel and they're not sure what they want, so they mess with your head to try and figure it out. They are afraid of hurting you or losing you, which causes them to act out in ways that make no sense at all. They may even think that if they do enough crazy stuff, then something will change for the better (really cray cray). But instead of getting closer together as a result of their antics (which is what most people hope for), this behavior only makes things worse between the two of you. Here's the deal: Get to know your own intentions and those of the other person, before moving forward by asking yourself these questions: 1) Why am I considering this person? What do I want from him/her? 2) How does this person make me feel? Is it a good feeling or a bad one, and why do I think that's so (or not)? 3) What is true for me right now? What isn't true for me right now? What do I want to be true in my life and how can this person help me get there? I hope this article has helped shed some light on why people mess with your head, and what you can do about it. And remember that there are always two sides to every story, so don't jump to conclusions without understanding both sides first! Keep your heads together, Erin Time to Dish: What can you do to stop being messed with? What are some statements you can create to help you? How will you create boundaries? Listen to DIVORCEE DISH TWO

It feels GREAT when you’re ready to start dating after your divorce. It means you’ve moved on and are prepared to begin a new chapter in your life. However, going from being a married man or woman and a parent no less to starting over as single and dating again can be highly stressful. You want to ensure you’re OK with it, especially that your children are OK with it, but how do you tell them? Here are some tips on how to express to your family that you're ready for a new relationship: Start When You Are Ready YOU, Y-O-U. You’ve been through a lot; getting your life back on track can take time. Before jumping into another relationship, you must have your life in order, financially and emotionally. Beware of someone with baggage or drama; they will only bring more stress into your life, which will cause more problems than they are worth. Note the below: You must be stable. We all have our ups and downs, but if there are signs of depression or anxiety on your end or his/hers, this is not the right time for dating. Remember that you don't want anyone else's problems affecting yours. Remember how hard it was dealing with them alone? Imagine how much harder it would be if someone else had them too, which carried over into your life. Be happy. Suppose there aren't any signs of depression or anxiety, but instead, there is anger toward others. This is not healthy behavior either, so please seek help before trying a new relationship. Anger management classes exist for reasons like these, so perhaps you should sign up today and learn more about it. Tell Your Kids Before Dating & Be Honest With Them You must be honest with your kids and tell them what’s happening. Let them know that you are thinking about dating again and why it's essential for you to do so. And gently tell them what you expect from them while you are dating (or considering dating). And note there’s a difference between being honest and sharing too much. You don't want to lie or hide the truth from your children, but sometimes it's best to wait until they are older before opening up about your dating life. Whether or not you choose to tell them about the other person depends on how intense the relationship is and how much time has passed since your divorce was finalized; if you're beginning to date after the divorce and aren't sure if this person could become “the one,” hold off on telling them about yourself and your kids until things are more settled in both areas of life. Listen to Your Kids and Understand Them When you begin dating after divorce, listening to and understanding your kids is essential. They are going through a lot of emotions, changes, and growth. They are also facing challenges that they may not have experienced before. But remember, it’s OK for you as a parent (or guardian) to share how you feel about dating again after divorce so that your child feels comfortable talking about their feelings about this new relationship with someone else who loves them dearly, you. Give Them Time to Adjust When you begin to date after a divorce, it's important not to rush into anything. You don't want your kids or ex-spouse to feel like they're being pushed out of your life. Give them time to adjust and get comfortable with this new normal for both them and you. It's also important not to rush into a relationship just because you want one badly. It might be tempting when everyone around seems happy in theirs but remember, everyone's situation is different, and there may be a good reason why someone isn't ready or willing yet (or ever, for that matter). You should always do what feels suitable for yourself and your kids first! What’s the best way to tell your kids? When you begin to date after a divorce, you'll want to ensure your kids understand and feel safe in their homes. Here are some tips for telling them: Tell them before you start dating. The earlier, the better. It's best to hear from a parent rather than a friend or family member who might need to have all the facts straight (or even care). Do this in person. If not, write your child a personal letter explaining that someone else will be coming into your and their lives and why it's happening so soon after their parent’s separation/divorce. Tell them when they're always calm and not angry with either parent (which is always it seems!). This way, they'll be able to process what is being stated more quickly than if they were already upset about something else, such as schoolwork deadlines or having just lost a critical soccer game against another team from across town yesterday! It's important to remember that kids are incredibly intuitive and innovative and know more than we give them credit for. They understand what is going on in their parent’s lives and want to be involved in the decision-making process. We can help our children by listening to what they say and ensuring they feel safe talking about what they think about the new person coming into their life without judgment or criticism from us. Everyone deserves happiness; sometimes, it just takes time. Love, Erin Time to Dish: · When did you start dating after your divorce or separation? · How was it? · How did you find a person? · When did you introduce your children? Listen to DIVORCEE DISH TWO

Divorce is a stressful and complicated process for everyone involved. It can be incredibly challenging for women or men who have long been socialized to put others' needs before their own. You may feel that you're not sexy anymore and don't have much of a sense of self-worth. This can be especially true if you're going through a divorce after many years of marriage or if you now find yourself single at an older age. However, it's important to remember that being sexy doesn't mean looking like the latest celebrity in People magazine—it means feeling good about yourself! What does it mean to be sexy? Sexy is a feeling. Sexy isn't about your body or what you wear; it's how you carry yourself and interact with others. If you feel sexy, others will see that in you--and want to be around it. So if you're worried about how others perceive your sexiness (or lack thereof), stop worrying so much! Sexy also means being comfortable in your skin. It doesn't matter how old or young or fat or thin or tall or short we all are--the key is feeling good about who we are as individuals before we worry about anything else. And once again: this comes from within each of us--not from some external source telling us what our limitations should be based on age/weight/height, etcetera... What are some tips to make yourself feel more comfortable? · Think about what makes you feel sexy. · What are some things that make me feel sexy? · What are some things about my personality that make me feel sexy? · What are some things about my body that make me feel sexy? What phrases can you say to yourself to feel sexy? · I am sexy. · I am beautiful. · I am handsome. · I am funny. · I am confident. · I can do this! We know that this can be a difficult time for you, but we also know that it doesn't have to be. We hope this blog will help you feel more confident and sexier in your skin again. Remember, don't give up! You are beautiful, handsome, cute, fun, and valuable no matter what anyone else thinks of you. Be YOU, and YOU ARE SEXY! Listen to DIVORCEE DISH TWO

You don't need to have anything to do with a mean person, so don't waste your time, period. When someone is being mean or unresponsive, remove yourself from their presence and go somewhere else, finding people that love and support you. Dealing with non-communicators is like pulling teeth (which is no fun at all), and people these days (mostly) have lost the art of kindness when interested in someone. If you are stuck at work and a disrespectful friend, date, whatever, won't leave you alone, or if they live next door and constantly invite themselves over for dinner (or worse), it's time for severe boundary-setting. Set boundaries about when and where it's OK for them to communicate with you and stick to these rules: You need to protect yourself and practice boundaries. Protect your time. Practice boundaries. Have a plan for dealing with mean people. Only waste your time on someone else's drama if you have the energy and patience. We suggest avoiding other people's drama at all costs. Mean people are rude, disrespectful, and completely ignorant in the communication area. They don't care about you or your feelings and will do everything they can to make you feel bad about yourself. They have little regard for others and their needs; they only care about themselves! You are better than that! And it's not just their behavior that makes them mean, but also how they communicate with others. They don't listen - When someone is being mean towards us, it's easy for us to get defensive because we feel like we're being attacked or insulted by what they say or do. However, this isn't always true (or fair). Sometimes when someone says something hurtful or critical towards us, it may be because they don't know any better. That doesn't make them less wrong, in any case. Building a relationship means two-way communication via phone or in person. There's no better way to communicate than in person or on the phone because you can hear the other person's tone and body language. Texting is impersonal and not ideal for relationships. You need to be able to listen to the other person's voice. If someone can not commit to that, run! Do not walk; I’m telling you to RUN., they are a poor friend, and you must protect yourself. If your kids are disrespectfully texting you and don't respond when you ask them not to text at all or very sparingly, they are also disrespectful. It takes two-way communication for a relationship, and texting is only proper communication if it is with your kids, who are still learning about their phones! Building relationships means talking on the phone or in person; there is no other way around it! We are all entitled to our own opinion, but when someone is mean or disrespectful, it's time to walk away. They are not worth your time if they cannot commit to two-way communication. You deserve better than that. Hold your heart to the highest level! Erin Time to Dish: How often have you dealt with people who can not communicate? Is it because they feel as if they will say something wrong? How have you handled that situation? What were the results? What would you do differently?